In second grade I met a girl who became my best friend. We were friends for years and did classic best friend things: we had a secret club, a collective crush on the cutest guy in the class, and spent way too long analyzing most anything on the phone. And then one year she didn't invite me to her birthday party and we were suddenly no longer friends. It was all very seventh grade.
Except at that time of the birthday non-invite, we were 25 years old. We had been friends for 18 years. I was crushed. It hurt worse than any romantic break-up I've experienced.
The day after my 40th birthday, almost 15 years after she quit speaking to me, we became in contact again. It was all very Beaches.
Except that there was no dying, no children, no fight over men, no fight at all and no drama involved. And Beaches didn't take place in the time of facebook. So, while my ex-best friend has long reminded me of Bette Midler, it wasn't like Beaches at all.
She sent a friend request. I accepted. We wrote each about our hair. We're judging by little thumbnail photos on facebook and we each think the others hair looks great.
I expected some personal drama around turning 40. I expected some personal drama surrounding my first re-acquaintance with the ex-best friend I've always known I would someday see again. I did not expect them to be one and the same. Or both entirely devoid of dramatic tension.
So, I'm 40. My hair looks great.*
Ex-best friend is still 39. Her hair looks great too.
That's that.
*Photo taken immediately after blowing out the candles on my birthday. And, alas, my hair frequently doesn't look this good, but I like to think that it always could.
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
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