My travels as of when I started college |
My map now |
Meanwhile, whenever I advise my students about other classes, I am stunned by what I have forgotten. I can no longer integrate anything (in the area under a curve sense) and can only write about 15 of the 1,500 Chinese characters I once knew. That's not really surprising since I do not use calculus (although perhaps I should) and it's been 23 years since I last studied Chinese. But I still vote and can no longer espouse all of the amendments in the right order. I'm a failure at US Presidents in the 1800s (aside, I suppose, from Lincoln and Grant). I had to look up properties of a normal distribution recently, although I still use stats all the time.
Travels with my husband and ex-boyfriend |
Adult travels without parents, husband or boyfriend |
I know so much different stuff now. Much of it that I can't imagine not knowing. I'm regularly amazed at twenty-somethings doing a great job of parenting because I can't fathom that they know enough. I'm drawing from 41 years of experiences and I feel I'm barely scraping by. There is just so much to learn. About everything.
I've been working on this post for several days and I'm still not sure where I am going with it. Part of it is in a call to leniency when dealing with the young. They just can't know that much. Even the well-traveled (like me when I started college-- top map*) have huge gaps. Part of it is a call for leniency from the relatively less young to those of us younger. We just haven't had as many opportunities to experience as much as you have. And please feel free to laugh at any of us when we think that we've figured it out.
But mostly, it is a call to keep learning thing. To put yourself in new places. To read more. To experience. To go. To learn.
And then maybe you won't be so mortified with all the things you forget.
* Key for the top two maps is white- unvisited. Red-drive by (or longer visit when I was one). Orange- at least spent the night and learned some things. Blue- multiple visists or an extended trip (e.g. honeymoon to Newfoundland). Green- lived there.
The third is places I have been with my husband (who I met when I turned 31) orange, my ex-boyfriend (blue) or both (green). Wyoming should be green on that map. The last map was a project with some of my students in mind, who think that they need to have met their mate or be part of a traveling family in order to explore. These are places I have been without my parents, husband, or ex-boyfriend. I took the train across New Mexico and the bus from Denver to Santa Fe. I think it should count for something. Learn more and make your own map here on defocus.net. I think the prairie dog map would look much like the husband map, but the prairie dog was not yet on the scene as of the Yellowstone-Glacier trip.
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Maybe Idaho should be a different color. Nah. I have been to Idaho on six different occasions. I think I spent the night there 5 times.
From a fb comment: I learn new things every day from my five year old and Wild Kratts. And last night, I was so depleted, I literally couldn't think of the word "two." I didn't eat calamari until I was 32, and it's one of Patrick's favorite foods. You're definitely not alone.
And this is just the US and Canada!
I did look at my country list. 16 before I graduated from high school, another three added in college, and 5 new ones since: UK, Ireland, China Spain and Ecuador.
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